Forgive the outburst of self pity that is likely to follow..... I am having a bad day.  I am in that phase of alternately believing that it can be repaired and there is a future and that it is all over.  The complications of living and working in your business premises with your former wife and your children are at best challenging.  Last night I returned from working at 7:45pm to be asked by the STBX to put up the family tent in the back garden so that the children can camp out for the night.  'With whom?' was the first thought on my mind as I felt it a little presumptious on her part to

Here I am, 45 years old, three fabulous kids, 22 years with my wife, married for 15, contemplating the final exit.  Not through my choice.....Appearently I'm no longer sexually attractive, she doesn't love me and she doesn't want me around.  It was my wife's 40th birthday in January.  We co-own and operate a hotel business, and the previous year has been a very difficult one, both financially and emotionally. The business had been performing poorly and I took a 'blue sky' job opportunity to try to make some money to support our business through a bad patch.  Five days a week I would drive a