What do I do next? I am beginning to think that she has some kind of illness. Yesterday, she got a locksmith out to open the apartment and her former bedroom. After the door had been opened, she got one of the staff to accompany her into the room and witness her taking two new watches and a new digital camera out. Whatever it was she really wanted, she has obviously taken before getting the member of staff. To add insult to injury, she paid him cash from the till and left the receipt for me.

She continues to bleat about my illegal actions and the dreadful advice my solicitor was giving me

Just when you think you have gone as low as you can, something comes along to remind you that there is always lower.  The STBX and I co-own and operate a small hotel.  Normally we have a chef, but she gave him the week off this week. Normally STBX is second chef.  Normally I run the bar and front of house.  This weekend was far from normal.  STBX moved out on Tuesday, in a very confrontational manner.  Friday we had a full hotel.  STBX waited until I got home from work, carrying two document boxes of work that I hadn't done on Weds and Thurs, when I was dealing with the outcome of her little

Oh my, Hell hath no fury like a woman who thinks someone has got one over on her. Things have taken a serious turn for the worse. She has lost the plot, and reached rock bottom, but is continuing to dig.

Briefly, she took over a rental house on Monday. Tells me on Monday night that she is going to be decorating kids room before she start moving anything in. I have been asking her for a fortnight to give me a list of things she wants to take, so that we can manage the transition and retain a home in two places for the children, who will be here every night after school until 8:30pm, and