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Aug 21
2008
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Beyond belief and then some more.Posted by fitbird in worry and anxiety, police, my day today, children, bad day |
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Not sure how my sanity is still in tact. Idiot is on his way back from the funeral that I wasn't invited to and wanting support (the man who died I knew for about 17-18yrs and i wanted to go to funeral). My 15yr old has face of bruises from falling over as she said she was staying at her friends house last night but turned out they stayed elsewhere, out till all hours drunk. At least she was honest but this boys mother picked them up and even in the state they were in didn't think to call me, she even knew they were going drinking?????? She obviously has a serious defect wit her parenting skils. Daughter was sad and felt guilty so came clean. I know not unheard of teen behaviour just could have done without it at the mo.
Other daughter (18) just casually rang and said oh mum I've been in a police cell all night. She decided to drive her boyfriends car to pick him up from work last night and drove into a tree - she not passed her test. I now cannot sit as a magistrate until it all sorted. She not even got guts to come home and is staying at her boyfriends again tonight, I know she shame faced but she knows the rules, she knew, I warned her about things like this as I see it all the time in court. She is lucky she isn't dead or even worse and killed someone else.
It just all comes a once and I got no bugger supporting me as he went off. I have no idea how I going to tell him, not sure i even am at moment. Sorry if sounding me me me, but I just ot sure what else can be thrown my way, dead marriage, had those dreaded hosp tests recently and gotta go in for more (not C they said but they not sure what), no money, kids doing this, stupid parents (long story but broke contact last yr as had violent abusive father and he now sober but he still won't face up to what he did), idiot to'ing and fro'ing, I know people have worse but it is an overload for me.
Yeah i know another vent from me but it really helps just so much.
xxx
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saffy1968
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| August 21, 2008 | ||
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Hi, firstly you do not need an invite to go to a funeral, he is bad making you feel that way and im sorry about what the kids have done. Take a few deep breaths and hopefully you will be able to talk to them in the morning. You really do not need this and need to make your kids understand that their behavior is totally unaceptable in these circumstances, well in all circumstances. They should realise that they should be supporting you now and its not like they are small children. I hope that you can get through this and can go back to sit in court again, Oh and the friends mother that your daughter stayed with is obviously very irresponsible so that is not your fault, I would have a word with that woman. Take care Saffy xxx |
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marriaa
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| August 21, 2008 | ||
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fit ,you have had your share,so hopefully that is it now. children always take advantage when you lose focus.i am sure the 18yr old one will never do this again and 15 yr old is just pushing boundaries.She will come out of it.Do not be afraid to let x2b know what is going on.You will be at fault if he finds out later,anyway why should he get away scotch free. |
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Daisy040
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| August 22, 2008 | ||
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claire... dont know what to say really...seems like your going through the mill at the moment hun....you know we are all here for you and if blogging is a way to help then use it !!.... take care and hope today is a better one !! Daisy xxx |
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