Can it go anymore downhill?????

Scumbag arrived at 10.30-after emailing that he would come at 11.00. He said he was just going to take some things out of the shed. I said I would prefer him to start with the things from the house. He then informed me that he didn't have anything in the house, so I reminded him of all the stuff he had been storing in the loft etc.He told me I could dispose of all that, to which I said I wanted him to do the hard work of moving it, as it was his property.

He then informed me that he wouldn't be taking the shed etc as he hadn't got a van. I told him that I was expecting him to take everything, as I was hoping that this would be the last time he had to come to the house.

It all went downhill from there-every second word was f**k-from him I hasten to add, not me. The angrier he gets, the calmer I become which seems to rile him!!! I asked him not to keep using that language, especially as quite a few of my neighbours were coming out to see what was going on. My son could hear him, and he was upstairs at the time.

He has told me that if I make him a reasonable offer, then he will get out of my life!!! I told him that I was trying very hard to remain reasonable, despite my sols advice that we go to court-and that if 'the photos' are used, he doesn't think things will go well for scumbag.

It then went from every 2nd word being f**k, to almost every word!!! My friend turned up at that point. She said she is prepared to write a witness statement to my sol.

He threw a few things into his car, and drove off whilst I was inside trying to stop myself bawling too much. We only knew he had gone, when son went out to help him, and saw scumbags car had gone.

Son received a text 2hrs later apologising for behaviour. I got an email, saying that he has blocked all my calls and emails, which he claims 'leaves only one route' and I can 'watch the pounds disappear'. As far as he is concerned, he has 'put a reasonable and time limited offer'. He says I will have to take on all the costs. I don't think he realises that the court has already ordered HIM to pay the costs!!!

I will contact my sol tomorrow. I cannot put up with scumbag coming and yelling profanities at me like that. I suppose the gloves are off, and I will have to tighten my belt a little more.

After scumbag had gone, my friend helped my son and I take some bits to the local tip-we had a laugh, and managed to flutter our eyelashes enough to get a strong young man to help us!!! My sister arrived, and was upset for me that the day had gone 'tits up', but as she said, would we expect anything different from scumbag?

Apparently, the 'gobby hobbit' has gone away with her Mum and kids-I know what scumbag used to get up to when I was away-she is very brave to trust him, with his history-but that is no worry of mine.

In theory, this should have been so straight forward...

he takes pictures of himself screwing a prostitute...

I find the photos....

Petiton for divorce on the grounds of adultery...

He admits....

I offer 50:50 split....

It should read THE END, but it doesn't!!!!

I feel like I am back at square one, but more worn down that at the start of this. Does he really think that I want the humiliation of other people seeing those revolting pictures? I feel like my spirit is being broken-no matter how hard I try not to allow him to do that to me.

The even sadder thing is, that he asked me not to use youngest son to communicate-and son says that has never happened anyway-and he has not responded to his dads text. The stupid man is already ignored by our daughter, eldest son has voiced concerns that his dad will embarrass him at a family wedding in 2 weeks time, with his language and behaviour. Now, it looks like our youngest will give up on him too. And all through his own stupidity.

Can it go anymore downhill?