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Aug 16
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Scumbag is supposed to be coming tomorrow, to pick up his belongings. I have been here before on 2 previous occasions, and he didn't turn up, but from what youngest son says, he is fully intending to stick to his promise for tomorrow.
My sister is coming over from M/c, and a couple of friends have promised to call in 'for coffee' to give some moral support.
Isn't it wierd. I have spent the last 29yrs of my life with this bloke, and here I am begging people to come and be with me for what will probably be the last time we are together in our home.
I wonder if he feels any twinge of emotion about this event? I hope at some point he feels some remorse, but I am not holding my breath.
I saw my sol on Thursday. He is still frustrated with me for insisting on a 50:50 split. He thinks with the photographic evidence I have on scumbags infidelity, I should be pushing for 60:40. He may be the legal expert, but I know scumbag too well. He is disputing the fair split I am offering-we'd get no where if I went for anything more.
I need to get scumbag out of my life before he gets another criminal conviction and ends up bankrupt, or seriously in debt.
Up until this evening, I had just been getting on, in fact I was feeling pretty good about life. My daughter is slowly getting her new flat sorted. It only takes me 10 mins to drive there, and she will be moving in completely in 2 weeks time. She doesn't want her dad to know where she lives. Eldest son has gone on hol with his gf and youngest son is well on the road to recovery after our traumas of July. I got chatted up by a bloke I have known for quite a while, and yesterday I got a wolf whistle!!! ( and I don't think he had a dog and a white stick, as he was driving!!!).
I have removed the photos with scumbag in, from our multi frames, which cover the hallway walls, and replaced them with new photos.
How did it come to this?
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Goodman01
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Dear Donny, Another chapter in your life is about to appear at the next turn of the page, and like that turn of the page in your fav book, you will be thinking can it be as good as the last, or as bad. Well the answer is, you dont know unless you try.... Push on, and you will find out, if it isnt then the next one might, you never know you might find a good one just like me GM |
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Rasher
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Donnylass I understand that deal - when you know the person you know what you are up against and I cant say enough how good it is to get this mess over with its worth losing a bit of money. Hope he turns up tomorrow as this 'picking the stuff up' lark is causing something of a groundhog day for you. Wish I could get rid og my ex's stuff - if a skip wasnt so expensive I would do it that way. You need the moral support - its not because you cant handle him its because you cant handle what he has done to you, also he wont hang around so much if you have the crew in. Enjoy the wolf whistles but you really should put some clothes on when out in the community - I know this divorce stuff is tough but we have to keep up some standards  Rasherx |
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Donnylass
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Goodman-send me your address, and rasher LOL. Thanks for making me smile guys. Just hit the red wine and got Cher 'Strong Enough' blasting out. Might do the same tomorrow too  |
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Donnylass
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PS Anyone else in the Doncaster area tomorrow will be more than welcome at mine-the more the merrier. All support gratefully received  |
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IKNOWNOW
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| August 17, 2008 | ||
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With you in spirit Donnylass if nothing else. Take care hun and hope he turns up tomorrow so you can close another page in the book of divorce. xx Sarah xx |
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fitbird
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| August 17, 2008 | ||
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Hope he shows for you, mine failed to show 4 times and then I found out about the barmaid and launched his things out on the front lawn. Glad you got company, would come and bring a bottle and help you through today but bit far away;-) It'll be an odd day but next step towards new better life that you deserve. xxx | |
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