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Aug 14
2008
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I'm feeling rather sad. I'm back at work tomorrow after 7 weeks off with depression and feel quite apprehensive.
After weeks of yes/no yoyo my husband arranged for us to have a chat about getting back together. He cancelled 90 mins before our meeting saying he wasn't in the mood to chat but if I was feeling horny then he'd pop round.
I have so had enough and feel crushed. Why does he mess me about like this?
Why do I let him?
He's said me and the kids can stay in the house so long as i pay the bills and half the mortgage. kind of him!
I've decided that i'm going to step down from my job as a manager as i can't do outside childcare friendly hours. I'm also going to cut down my hours. It's a big decision to makeespecially whilst depressed but I don't really have a choice because of childcare. It does mean that we wouldn't be able to afford to get back together.
Hacks me off coz his job doesn't get affected but mine does. Him leaving blew my promotion out of the window too!
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mrsnomore
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| August 15, 2008 | ||
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((((((Rose)))))) keep going hun, you are doing well, its the crap to get through before the sunshine.... I'd have told him where to poke his horn.... Don't beat yourself up for being open and trying to sort out your problems, he is the one missing out by not taking the chance to come and talk to you. I know you must have felt awfully let down again, he has a long way to go to earn your trust and respect again, and this does not help you at all. Take care and only take on what you feel you can sope with at the moment, my ex blamed me running my own business as why we split up (not his affair lol!) he just doesn't see ANYTHING I did as important at all. Big hugs x |
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jude6168
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| August 15, 2008 | ||
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Hi Rose You are trying so hard and that makes you a good person. Your husband sounds like he doesn?t know what he wants and is putting you through the worst kind of hell saying yes no yes no. You must feel like you don?t know if you?re coming or going. Try to stay strong and I hope work goes well for you. We wiki people are here if you need us!! ((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))) Jude x |
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