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Posted by Daisy041 in my day today, money and finances, financial arrangements

Hi Mr Blogman and wiki pals..

been a while since ive blogged, kinda missed you ;-)

today was a day for dealing with stuff....financial stuff...well housey financial stuff actually....the bloody council tax hasnt been paid.....ok my fault kept meaning to get around to it - its only august installmentso not too bad, but they sent me the new letter which is just for me as I told them single occupancy etc and they've messed up !!! typical bloody council.....so im glad i didnt pay it......it has gone down abit since i told them i was on my own...that i do know re my conversation but the letter they have sent me is more than it was when it was joint occupancy......

then the letter came through re car tax renewal...not an issue execpt i dont think we've got insurance as cant find the beep insurance docs....and the last letter i found said it ran out in december !!! rang ins co but guess what ??? yep they were closed.......i thought call centre's were open all hours....so something else to deal with...also got to get car mot'd......by the 27th august....whilst i sorted this out before it feels wierd now being on my own...eveything was joint stuff you know..

havent seen ex for a month - havent heard from him for 2 weeks......and the last time i did was just because i contacted him.....how do i feel ?? not sure actually.....

its my wedding anniversary on the 22nd august....feels abit wierd.....i said before in a blog if i had the money i would courier divorce papers to his works as a wedding ann gift......cant do it though....cant go through the financial stuff yet im not ready.....shame i cant just get him out of my life once and for all...but hey ho....we all go through it dont we...the trials and tribulations of separation and divorce..

i was talking to mum and her hubby earlier and they pointed out that the only time he's contacted me is when ive contacted him....he said aaaaaggggges ago that he would be in touch more, that he would check on me and the house to see if i needed anything doing, to make sure everything was ok but he hasnt....i should be grateful really and i am, because whilst he doesnt contact me everything still gets paid as we are splitting it all....and i dont have to leave here etc....maybe im just feeling abit down as things are coming up which we dealt with as a couple...can you understand that guys ?? i dont doubt it actually...and then theres the first wedding ann.....which he will spend with her......what will he be thinking eh ?? will he be thinking anything ???? hhhmmmm....

wierd times ahead for a while but (and now Daisys smiling) ive got some amazing friends and people who i love dearly.....and we've got the wiki do !!!! note to Daisy, do not drink too much !!!!!! ;-)

take care all

love n hugs

Daisy

xxxxx

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JessieJ said:

August 11, 2008
		Daisy, Good on you for being so positive. I also got my car tax renewal today ... never done it before.. another first I guess! Also will be my 18th wedding anniversary on 25th.... so I've got that coming up too!! Will just be trying to get through it like any other day.... it seemed a good idea to get married on Bank Holiday at the time ...... wish it had been some other mundane day instead!!! Take Care Jess

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Mockingbird said:

August 11, 2008
		Hi Daisy My 11th anniversary next week - first one apart but at least better than last year when we went away to celebrate - middle of affair!!! - her birthday in August - this week i think - so now I will forever think about this!!! (and they are not even together!!) Anyway stay positive - the everyday things do take such energy and are a reminder of this messy business - but just remember - what doesnt kill us makes us stronger (at times I do actually want to kill the person who first said this!) Be strong girl Mockingbird xx

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Rasher said:

August 11, 2008
		Darn it Daisy - I've just realised I havent paid the council tax this month (so have less money than thought!) and you have reminded me its my wedding anniversary on the 23rd !!!! Mind you I never could remember it so maybe there was a message in there for me ..... If you like I will come on line and have a little glass of the sparkly stuff with you on the date. Dont worry about drinking too much - you enjoy yrself at Wiki Rasher

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