Thanks for those who replied to last weeks blog for your support.
Mitchum - you are right when you say no-one can see what really goes on in our marriages, and it's the same for all of them out there in wikiland and beyond. But wiki is great for taking that non-judgemental approach and helping us out of our own particular holes.
Kimmi - it's so true that there are two sides to every story and that her frustrations are also real for her. Those personality profiles I quoted (Myers-Briggs) are really useful in seeing how you interact with your partner, and teaching you about yourself too. We are