Oh my goodness, this is the biggie. Last Wednesday evening I was told by my husband that he wanted a Divorce. Utter shock. But today?? Today is the biggie as i have found out he has been having an affair for over a year. I am devastated to say the least, I feel so alone and lost, my beautiful Mum died 3 months ago and now I don't have the best shoulder i ever had to cry on. How could he be so cruel to me when all i ever did was worship him and talk about timing, our daughters 18th birthday is on thursday. Utter Utter depression. HELP ME PLEASE

my other half just told me that she does not  feel the same way about me as she did say twenty or ten years ago ,so from what i can see she has been  living a lie ,all this time.i think of all the time we had together,the happiness?.  all a

Woke up at 5 this morning rembering the argument we had last night where some really hurtful things were said.

She does not realise just how much pain she has caused. The relationship is over and we will never get back together but the pain is still there.

Everyday I think about the holidays we will never share  again, the movies we will never watch together, the things we will never share together. Things that she will be sharing with someone else.

She has caused this pain but her life goes on in a seemingly perfect way while I am bogged down unable right now to move on.

But as always there is