well why have i not come here befor.thinkin that it will change,sleeping in late,not working,self pity,drinkin too much(probally a part of the reason).too depressed to seek help.i am new to these blogs so someone out there help me if this is the wrong place to put down the

I have been a member of Wikivorce for a few months now and have never written a blog. I suppose I have always been a little scared that I may reveal too much about myself and if by any chance my s2bx is on the same site he will recognise me, but what the hell, I will be speaking from the heart here and if he reads it and does recognise me then perhaps he will have a better understanding of why our marriage failed, or at least my conception of why our marriage failed. He is not entirely to blame, no one partner is but if he hadn't been such a controlling and jealous person (coupled with his

Just a short one, I stood up to her, she has appologised for moving my sons school without talking to me.  She has changed her mind about changing the access arrangements.

I am happy/releaved, and so are the children, it feels good to have that I have put her in her place, maybe for the first time in our relationship,