I have had the worse few days of my life, hadn't hear from him for 2 weeks so decided to text to ask to remove rest of clothes from the house, when he got text he soon was on the phone.Spoke to him about getting clothes and what he was doing bout seeing kids as it is now 7 weeks he hasn't seen them for or spoke to them, speaking to him he was really down (don't no what about he has now got a 28yr old girlfriend 14 years younger with 2 kids ). I told him he needs to see the kids as he adorded the kids and me a few months ago ( I asked him 2 leave after rowing about money,but have asked

I went out on my first date since separation and had an ok time. A few days later I asked her out for another and she yes, however a few days after that she wrote me back and said she didn't feel any chemistry so she needed to cancel. Even though I was thinking the same thing I was willing to give it another shot.

What a blow to the ego. Knowing my STBX is out dating isn't making it any easier and she refuses to even talk to me. Life has certainly been turned upside down. Last night was pretty rough but I think I'm feeling better about it today.

My ex is working 16 & 18 hour days at the minute, due to his job being weather dependent. His washing machine broke ( actually I think I broke it TBH).

He phoned to ask if I thought youngest girl would let him use her machine  & would I collect washing & take it back- she is the only one with one going  at the minute. Mine is still not plumbed in, but that is another saga! Anyway she was at work - Full time job on Security - I am SSOOOO proud of her. Does it show?

He said not to worry then, He would hand wash a couple of things and hope for the best. He sounded a bit down but he said he was