My life is a car crash....I have tried and tried to make my marriage work but he still lied to me and was sleeping with OW when we were supposed to be getting back together. He's now gone back to her and enough is enough. He's put me through hell and I can't take much more. Why can't I do what he's done and move on and forget I was married? Why am I still crying over a selfish, vulgar person?  I have no support from anywhere because everyone could see what he was like...except me...and they are all glad he's gone. They're telling me I'm worth more and that I will find someone who respects me

Hi everyone.  I don't normally do blogs but I thought I would today.

My partner and his stbx are still battling out the finances, I should say at this point, my partner has been forced down this road as his ex hasn't spoken to him face to face since she kicked him out almost 3 yrs ago now!  She has been told by the court the outcome has to go 50/50 but still she won't give in!  We're heading back to court in July which will be the final hearing(we hope).  After that day she will have 56 days in which to cough up or put house on market. She has used the children as pawns to try to get her own

After a dreadful week I woke up this morning (very early again - arrghhh) I decided enough was enough and I am determined to have a nice day. I've just had coffee with one of my old school chums and he is ex-army and tells me how it is. He is very straight to the point and is disgusted with how I've been treated. The advice he gives is very hard but I know in my heart it is really how I should be responding, to put that all into practice though is hard even though it shouldn't be. My friend is a good lad, how I wish though I could use the skills he has in himself and perhaps then I would be