It is a given that many of us here are depressed, mixed up or even suicidal. That means we don't always act rationally or speak rationally. However, surely banning someone simply represents ANOTHER rejection on top of the awful feelings of rejection and loneliness that many of us face. In fact, banning someone from possibly the only support network that they have may even cause an outcome that could be catastophic. To those that are concerned with this I would like to ask this:

Please consider VERY carefully whether banning somebody is a humane thing to do. We are all adults here and we can

Had the most bizarre evening yesterday.  We had first directions appointment on wednesday and it took until yesterday for her to react.  Apparently I was thrown out of court as the judge didn't agree to the request for a s7 welfare report.

It all kicked off after the children had been put to bed by me, as usual, and so I go downstairs to get some supper.  She arrives in kitchen having had 1/2 bottle wine and lights up in the kitchen as I am preparing food.  She normally smokes outside and this feel like deliberate provocation.  I then take food through to living room away from her to watch tv

Dear special wiki friends,

Tonight has been a very difficult night for me.

I have so much support from so many people who in a matter of a month have become key confidents and friends - helping me through the some of the most upsetting and troubled times I have ever faced. The more remarkable by the heavy burdens they already bear from their own undeserved hardships. These people have restored my faith in the goodness of mankind and the human spirit.

I have found my special wiki friends to be a source of comfort and inspiration.

I regret to say though, that I have now decided to depart wiki for