Well my absolute through wey hey so new beginnings...new name new image despite desperately trying to put my pic on just cant do it.

Was leaving wiki...but cant do it.... been with me throughout the rough so im sticking in now with you good guys for what maybe the smooth.... if all goes to plan hey

My absolute came yesterday it was granted 16th may my sons 9th birthday how ironic

been browsing over site lately and realise how many people can be helped or just encouraged as a wiki veteran, its good to see also that many get together arranged but unless i can bring kids im snookered as their

I feel sick - my head is pounding and most of all I never thought, he would do this to his children. Today I check my bank balance and have had to phone the csa. Why? because the payment was missing and my mortgage is due to be paid monday. After two phone calls I discover the reason the payment was missing because my ex, has given up work to claim benefits. Im paying the mortgage and without the csa payment, Im going to struggle - I think he has done this in order to force me to sell. I don't know whether or not I my head is going to explode or I want to be sick first and god only knows

Got a text off scumbag last night-I had texted him during the day telling him that I had gone to see our former financial advisor. Anyway, he said that was a good move!! It must have choked him to write that!! I think he has totally forgotten how practical and sensible I am. He sends wild threats and demands, I try and find out what is permitted or feasible.

He says he will contact the FA for her suggestions, tho I'm not too sure he will be happy with them. He hopes to walk away with a big (!!!) wodge of money, whereas she says he can have £20k and I don't touch his pension, and keep the