well journey well and truly underway, acknowledgment has been returned and Family mediation starts in couple of weeks, its all quite exciting really, Having been controlled by them for nearly 3 years, i have finally the stregnth to face thier sad little life and hold my head up.I hope she focuses on the well being of the kids and not his or her well being. I am hoping mediation will be a better vehicle for me interms of agreement and time scales and costs, so i can move on further down that road to inner peace, and finally leave them behind. So any tips will be welcome

Ricky

ITS FUNNY BUT I FEEL CONTENT IVE GOT SO MUCH TIME TO SPEND ON MYSELF INSTEAD OF LOOKING AFTER

Well the 25 anniversary all most gone now,a bit like a comet.Passes once in a lifetime.I feel very still today.not really thinking about much.Just got on with the day really.No letters from solicitors,No arguing,I made a card with 25 on it.stood it on the sideboard,don't think any body really cares about it. I have noticed that people have remarked on how you can go up and down with this divorce situation.That's me! Thanks again