Hi people Haven't been around much as my life seems to be in a perpetual state of fast forward. Since Christmas, I have sold my house (contracts exchanged yesterday, completion on 31/1), so me and my new man (who I met on this site) have rented a beautiful house together and are moving in over this weekend. Bloody hard work but well worth it for a new start in our own place instead of my house which was my FMH. X2B is behaving and has signed off all the financials so when the house sale completes, funds will be transferrred into our accounts instead of sitting in sol's account making

Mid-life crisis or serious? My husband of 19 years asked me to split up during a drunken row on Sat night. This was not on my radar, he is 50 in April and weve booked a trip to Krakow with a gang of 12, our 20th wedding anniversary is in may and I,ve booked a 'suprise' all inclusive hol to Majorca which I was going to suprise him with on his 50th birthday. As you can see i was not planning on this split, although i cant decide if i really agree with him. He has asked me 2ce before over the years (bothy times in anger when he had had a drink) and both times the next day i asked him if he was

After many years of considering ending marriage I told hubby in sept that it was over. Lots of debt, him working perm nights and me working days, no social life, 2 young children and it seems life in general drove us apart, I don't hate him, he never abused me but i think our marriage died years ago. We tried again but again i told him it was over in Dec. We have both seen solicitors. Mine suggested UB but said I had to site 8 examples and give dates and times if poss. I came up with a few but I was told I needed to be more specific, which I'm finding difficult. He told his he thinks I've