Day 11, Its Sunday night and I am at home with my girls. They are both sound asleep and we have had a good day together. I have no idea where my wife is and although I wish I didn't care I do. Don't know why. The marriage is dead. My eldest was really upset when we got home because Mummy wasn't here. I said she was working to try to give her an excuse she would be happy with but she doesn't actually have a job. I think this part is only going to get harder. As I said though, we had a good day. I dropped off my youngest with My Mum and Nan and took my eldest swimming. That was great fun. She

Here we go. I am sitting in my mums dining room (where I am currently living - temporarily I must add). I am absolutely knackered after a mad weekend of surfing yesterday followed by a long bike ride and car washing and ironing today. My STBX asked me for a divorce on the 12th December. I moved out on the 22nd at her request "before I hate you" and after being handed a divorce petition (unreasonable behaviour) that was full of poison and vitriol. I am currently awaiting our first mediation session on the 14th February (ironic, perhaps?). I am still waiting for that phone call where she is

Hi its Blog time and here we go another instalment in this never ending rollercoaster ride we call divorce. Firstly the photo on my Blog Yes it’s me in France summer 2007 And Dumped2 you sure put a smile on my face calling me a Hunk i needed that one. And ciaobella Dave and the others who have been kind enough to comment on my Blog or send me private messages and emails big thanks you’re great. To those who thought about it but haven’t, I don’t bite don’t be shy! I had a long lonely night shift on Friday the women who all know about my situation tried to help by doing a lot of my work