Hi it’s been a while since my last Blog I did start on several occasions but always something I needed to deal with came up .

On the odd few minutes I have spent here reading other peoples stories I’ve come to realise just how bad relationships can be and more so how cruel uncaring and downright nasty people can be in a relationship. I suppose to some extent I’m a little naive I read the stories in the news but somehow it just doesn’t seem real. Perhaps it’s because I’m at the opposite end of the spectrum to these people? perhaps its because to me if you love someone you show that affection,

It's been a busy week in the SL Household...... I was busy having valuations done on the house, as we have to agree a valuation by 4pm tomorrow, otherwise the court will appoint a valuer... which we will have to accept and pay for.....

I had a call from my sol early in the week.... she'd had a call from his sol, he wants a valuation done by a particular agent, and would I agree for that to be done?........I said "yes - no problem".....she said she'd let his sol know, and they could have it organised (around my work schedule)..... anyway, no contact from him, or this particular agent....I

Weds 20th feb 2008 , meet ex again at court he was nice and late bought that thing with him again.Felt we were in front of that judge for hours , nice to see he had to consult her about everything, hmmm i was once only his wife he never consulted me about nothing.Anyway thats the past me being with him,I'm glad i went to court on weds as seeing him again has released me from his spell i no longer have feelings for him only dislike which is good i feel i can get on with things now.Nice of him to say ladies first going in before the judge opening the door should of known he was only going to