Sunday night and all is quiet. Kids are asleep and stbx is downstairs doing whatever. She has been up to London to see her friends up there and took him with her. I remember when she took me up there to meet her "group" and felt quite proud to be shown off. Now its his turn. I guess thats how this sort of thing goes. Life always goes in cycles and now its his turn to replace me as her guy. I doubt it will last between them. Their relationship is based on lies and that doesn't seem like a good base to get things going for any couple. I dont know the stats but every one tells me that these sort

So...here I am. All settled in Las Vegas. First month under my belt, and as much as it has been a great move for me, my heart bears a heavy burden. The good: I love my new rental property. Its a wonderful home. I love my new job. I'm doing great so far and fully expect being the best at what I do there. My roommate moved in last weekend and paid me $500 US for Feb. rent. That's fantastic. My last job is paying me my monthly commissions, as agreed upon, so another $2500 US will be coming in this month. My 3 year old boy calls this "new house" or "Daddy & Hayes' house", which is

Well it's been a week now since my wife told me IT'S OVER and there's no more trying to work things out, well it's been three mths that we've been working at it and six to eight mths for her. Basicly I've spent a week crying thinking what am I going to do, why has she done this, what's wrong with me, had I done anything, why, why, why. We had a chat last night and I told her how hard I was finding it to let our marriage go, I sort of knew in the back of my mind that this would happen. The kids have accepted whatever happens, happens, I think because they haven't seen any phisycal change as