When I was a child fairytales told me that sad stories have happy endings and good people were rewarded and evil people were punished. If only in the real world this were true there would always be happy endings. My marriage would have lasted for ever and ever we would have lived in happiness, contentment and fidelity.

 

I now know this is not an ideal world and that the a loving and committed relationship knows no bounds, but similarly the agony that two humans are able to inflict on one another defies description. Having bonded and shared myself intimately with another the pain I felt

well, i am not afraid to admit that i had huge issues dealing with my wifes affair with one of my best mates. It certainly makes you feel like a failure both in your marriage and in that friendship, however i would urge anyone who gets the opportunity to attend counselling sessions , and i know some people have to be far stronger and have to dig deeper for that stregnth if they dont get that opportunity and my hat goes off to them.what ever methods we take none of us are failures, infact we are more of a sucess than we believe and we will be successful in turning the situation around. The

amazing just opened our 'mr & mrs' post and guess what? hotel booking confirmation! I just cant stop reading it. He is actually useing Mr & Mrs! I have viewed hotel on website even phoned them to check booking 'superior' room. King size bed. I am gutted. We couldnt go anyway much for 10 years as we were working on business & restoring deralict house. I feel like phoning and cancelling his reservation so he loses deposit and is in shit when he gets there. Can I be that childish. We are living apart & at necree nisi stage. I am running a 7 day week business on my own keeping it together while