Have learn't my lesson..do not ever trust your X2B.

Having drawn up an informal agreement with him regarding our Monthly finances...and him promising to work with me to get the overdraft down..I put my share in and well will you believe it..he's blown the whole lot...I called him in dispair and he laughed..

Got onto the bank to ask their advice..thankfully got hold of a really savvy lassy..who suggested I just open a new account now with them..then seperate myself from the joint one, when I am ready..In her words.."then that will catch the monkey out".

I know you are asking why leave it so

it's been a qiet week on the D front.Probably because he's been too ill to annoy me!! I still haven't replied to the solicitors letter about D because I'm waiting to see if we can agree on kids before I go to mediation.He txt one of kids saying he misses her.He still thinks I influence them.I don't!! They are old enough to know how they feel.She wasn't exactly kind in her reply!! She has her own issues to deal with-I'm more concerned about her than him.Looking forwards to hols in 2 weeks.Maybe a week on the sun will cheer us all up.

Met a great group of people in chat room here last night.We

My first blog post and everything is still VERY raw so it's a long one I'm afraid. I apologise, I know blogs are supposed to be short and sweet so don't read if you can' be bothered. I understand.

My wife and I have been married for 11 years. 2 days before our 11th anniversary, last Wednesday, she told me it was over. So far, it is amicable and we both hope to keep it that way for the sake of our daughter.

My wife has suffered from Bipolar Disorder (what used to be called manic depression) for most of our married life and I have helped her through the worst possible times. It's not