so,tomorrow I'm going to CAB to ask their advice.WE had it all sorted last year but now that he's losing his mind he's decided it's not good enough.He wants to see more of the kids.OK but on their terms not his!! Who is this

I am so full of anger that my ears are buzzing and my hands are shaking and I don’t know why, or at least I don’t know why now!

We went to mediation, which I just wanted to be about finances, but was about other stuff too, and I had just got to a calm place with all this and its liked the coals have been raked over and have sprung back to life again, only even hotter than before.

Appetite – gone completely – feeling sick again and very pissed off and I want to throw and kick and scream.

Its almost like the mediator just loosened the cork and when we got home KER BOOM!!!!!!! We shouted

Where to start.....

Well.... a quick recap.... over seven weeks ago now, my husband left... wiping out our finances as he went....

He didn't get in contact....I wasn't sure exactly where he was..... but through sheer luck, I managed to find out... thanks to him not redirecting his mail....

Anyway.... skip to today - what a day!!!!!!

Firstly, the post brought his mobile phone bill..... there was one number that came up hundreds of times.... a mobile number.... then there was another number which also came up a lot - a landline number....

It didn't take a genius to figure it out..... and although I