it was a waste of time.she barely had time to talk to me before sheperding me back out of the door.Might have to look at mediation next.I'll be damned if I'm giving into his demands.They're my kids.Where has he been for the last year when they've cried themselves to sleep or shouted abuse at me because of what he's done to

Much calmer today, hardly any sleep again but we are still talking at least. Still cant quite believe the things he said about me yesterday, and I was trying to remember what I said. I think spineless loser featured in there somewhere! But then as I said this morning we are both losers in this separation. He seems to believe that I have manufactured all these claims so I can dump him cos he is unemployed now – what? I really don’t know, we are talking but not communicating.

Still that’s how it goes and at least we didn’t throw anything.

Well.... it seems after seven weeks of virtually no contact my x2b cannot talk to me enough!!!!!

He called twice yesterday...... three times today.....

The upshot of it is ...... he wants 'to get things sorted'.....

Yesterday he admitted to having an affair - today he denies it - "I'm 55 years of age for christ sake".......

During the first phone call today I advised him to get a solicitor..... he called back 2 or 3 hours later...... "I've seen a solicitor"..... jeeeez - I wish I could see my solicitor that quickly!!!!!

He also told me that he had 'sorted the mortgage'...... I assume that means