its 03:39:27 according to the time log :-) Ive been in these room a lot times ow in the early hours of the morning looking round all the posts hoping that some where I can get a incline of what the hell to do, Ive read posts that make mine look trivial and made me as angry as the person who wrote them feels in dislike of the partner who has done this *+/$%^ thing to us all or in some cases themselves.

Anway, its not just me thats cold sitting here but my brain also, more and more as the days draws near to the court date Im struggling to find what I think I need to take to court so here goes

X2B came back with the results of his advice meeting in respect of legal aid and how to get a divorce..

He cried, and tantrumed how unfair it all is..blah de blah yawn yawn...

No legal aid for him..cannot think of a valid reason to divorce me.."cos you have done nothing wrong"...yes yes I wanted to scream...because that is all I kept worrying about...what had I done wrong...but I just let him go on and on..he pleaded with me to divorce him..pleaded with me to get things moving..cannot wait..I just cannot wait..please please do this for me..

Oh what a child, all I could say was "mmmm er mmmm, not

Sorted our finances out in the interim, sorted the children out..kinda..now need to sort X2B..

He called round for a chat without notice to say he was divorcing me..me?..

He cannot go on with this anymore and needs to move on and he can't without severing all ties with me..I reminded him that the children will always be a reminder of me..and he just laughed..so he was off to see if he could get legal aid and will move on from there...but I think I know better..he had concerns about what I would do when he goes on his next posting in May 2008..as he wanted a house and there was no way I could