Well ive been with my hubby just over 11yrs, married 9 and one child. Hes been left 2mths. Today reality kicks in when i get a letter off his solicitor saying divorce proceedings have been started on my unreasonable behaviour, which is lack of trust and accusations, and that im to expect the papers anytime. I was shaking when i saw the solictors logo on the envelope, i felt sick to the stomach. Im absolutely devastated, its too soon.He says he loves me but not in love with me. What the hell, you can get that back, but he doesnt want to. I feel like giving up already, life seems so pointless

Spoke to hubby about 7pm as his car was not outside the pub as it usually is. He was still at work but said he wouldn't be long. Had to phone him to pass on a msg about 9.45 so he obviously went to the pub instead of coming home and finishing off the garage which was what he said he was going to do. Phoned him about 9.45 to pass a msg on (someone had called for him) and he said he would be home in about 10 mins or so as he was pissed off. This he duly did but was in a funny mood, the one you have to watch what you say and do in case he becomes scarsastic. I retreated to the garden to water

Hi Everyone, I'm new here, and first time for me to write on any blog! so appologies in advance for long story and any gramatical errors!

Had been married for 24 yrs knew him for a year before we got hitched, have two lovley children now aged B,22 & G20 , he now ex services, discharged on medical grounds (2000)usual life experences that life throw's at you i feel either makes or brakes you in our case felt it had brought us closer, epecially 3 wk's after we were wed he was diagnosed with cancer (sucessfully treated after op and follow up treatment) lived in the south west (SW) prior to moving