Here I am, 45 years old, three fabulous kids, 22 years with my wife, married for 15, contemplating the final exit.  Not through my choice.....Appearently I'm no longer sexually attractive, she doesn't love me and she doesn't want me around.  It was my wife's 40th birthday in January.  We co-own and operate a hotel business, and the previous year has been a very difficult one, both financially and emotionally. The business had been performing poorly and I took a 'blue sky' job opportunity to try to make some money to support our business through a bad patch.  Five days a week I would drive a

Well, the pension forecast have started to trickle back now. Why is it the charges for these are so disparate? £80+vat for my current one, yet wife qouted £300 pound if she wants it in less than 3 months...extortionate.

Thinks are ticking over at home - but it is a bit awkward now as we are both doing our own thing and privacy is a bit of an issue. Hopefully should be moving out shortly - once flat becomes available - then it will truly start to sink in I suppose.

Felt pretty awkward this last month asking for share towards household bills - as I've always paid all of those - with missus

Five years had been a long strugle and still stressed about it all. The soon to be ex had decided to the sign the consent order. I now look forward to drop the albatrouss (ex) and set about to rebuilt my happy future. However, its not quiet over yet until I see the Decree