I love Xmas, my son loves it. my wife clearly loves the fact that this year she can enjoy it with us then speed off to new boyfriend whenever she wants, safe in the knowledge that dull old husband will watch the child at all times.

 

finaly, after weeks of BS from her about couple counselling she gives in to my questions and admits she has met someone else. i feel played like a fish on the end of a line. she knows that i have been trying to get her to counselling for some time and she has been agreeing with that to keep me placid while at the same time imploring me to let her get her social

Well it is now 2 months since my wife decided that she would rather be on her own and walked out the door.

Thanks to my work colleagues, friends, friendly women :) and people on this website, I have managed to get over the original feelings of shock and desperation, and now have quite a positive outlook on life moving forward. I can now safely say that I believe that she was perhaps the stronger person to say enough was enough.

I am pleased to say we seem to have come to an amicable arrangement around our son, and his maintenance. I suppose the arguments may start when the actual divorce

Well I finally got to see my son and also managed to get him all day on Boxing day so that will now be my Christmas Day feel a lot happier in myself. things are moving nicely on the new relationship front also after the blind date of last week set up by my friends I have been asked to go to hers for the new year and although we have both agreed to take things very slowly things are starting to look positive. Must admit x2b looks like she has had her nose put out of joint as I no longer respond the way i did. Think she may be realising that I no longer would have her back and that I have