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I was not liking what was happening to me - I could not get my ex out of my head she was always in my thoughts.
Then bang one night last week she said something to me I finally realised that not only did I no longer love this person but I also realised that I would never get back with her.
We have grown so far apart we have become strangers.
So I am a single man living on my own; I can do what I want - maybe this has some benefits?
So, last week I joined a gym and have gone twice so far; I have always enjoyed going to the gym previously but the ex made me feel guilty as she had nothing similar to do and said I was wasting my money.
I have purchased a ticket to see Manchester United v Portsmouth in the Charity Shield this coming Sunday. Cant wait!
I am about to book a holiday in November for my son and I to go away for a week somewhere sunny.
Hey, she can have her new fellow who is 12 years older than me and 15 years older than her, I am gonna start concentrating on me and doing what I like to do.
Smile and the whole world smiles with you. :)
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mishmine
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way to go paul!!!! live alone does have benefits. for the most part im fine in my own space. i do get lonely from time to time, but i was lonely in my marriage. nice to see u r making plans for u. may u keep smiling for a long time  mish xx |
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dawn1
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| August 05, 2008 | ||
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I am so glad you have found peace for yourself and your children, sometimes its the little things they do to make you realise that you no longer love them, It is a wonderful feeling not having all those emotions that you thought you had. the love and regret have now gone, you are free to live your life the way you want to without any guilt or anger. enjoy your new life, love yourself as much as you love your children. your blog will give others hope and comfort knowing that it does get better. dawn xx |
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gorgeous
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| August 05, 2008 | ||
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Great news Butyou should have bought everton tickets to really get the benefit from your new found freedom lol x | |
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phoenix1
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| August 05, 2008 | ||
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As I have said before '' This isn't the end, this is the start of your new life'' Enjoy your new new life, have fun and enjoy your holiday ! Phoenix1 |
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JJ50
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| August 05, 2008 | ||
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its so nice to hear someone say that they are happy at last. Im so pleased for you. I wish you every happiness and a wonderful holiday with your son All the best JJ |
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mrsnomore
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| August 05, 2008 | ||
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Good postive vibes, good for you. There is something good out of all things that look to be bad. Enjoy the footie, the gym and the hols! |
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Goodman01
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| August 05, 2008 | ||
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Good choice Paul, accept your situation and then make the most of it, still hard to get you ex out of your mind, and come to terms with what has happened, but no need to dwell on it. Make plans, do things that you know will enjoy and before you know it you will have re-discovered you. GM |
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Bloke123
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Hey Paul I am envious. When my wife left me 3 yrs ago - it hurt like hell but I also felt a mountain of relief come over me - time to move on etc etc. Like a fool I forgave her some months later and am in a pickle at the moment - but the day it happens I'm going straight down the golf club. Now use a gym (without guilt) and go and watch Saints play footie every saturday - so cheer on the reds and give the skates a good thrashing for me. Lots to do mate - go fill your boots |
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crazylady
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| August 06, 2008 | ||
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Great attitude Paul,keep it up |
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griffj
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| August 14, 2008 | ||
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What a fantastic blog Paul. I've been separated for 2 years altho in my heart thought that my husband might come back but found out he's been seeing someone for 3 years and is currently on holiday with her. So glad my 2-year old daughter occupies my mind, am sometimes grateful for the tantrums! So glad you are embarking on a life for you and your son, good for you. Look forward, not back - at least that's what I'm trying to tell myself. | |
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