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Decree Nisi - Too Soon

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Decree Nisi - Too Soon

Posted by Furbie RIP Pillow Curious in financial arrangements, affairs and cheating

So today was a wonderful day in Holland, good day at work and all that.

The last few days were tricky last week as xtb is seeking for me to pay the court fees along with 50% of her costs. Whilst I have behaved reasonably it strikes me as a bit much to expect to pay such amounts when it was her having the affair.

So I made an offer to her saying I would not defend based on her affair and let the UB go through....

I did not tell the kids about her affair to protect her..

And now...

I am getting ..... what is the word.... and it is only round 1.

I hope one day she realises what she has done... fingers crossed....

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