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Aug 03
2008
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how "2"Posted by lifesolong in depression loneliness, dealing with emotions, bad day, accepting its over |
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hi 2 all
thanks for all the responses, its great to hear all your thoughts.
I know this sounds kind of screwy,but this place ive found here, its kinda comforting,i let you know how im feeling,and telling you all is one step on from no one.but HOW "2" make the next step,actually meet people. ive put up with my ex overdosing on pills in front of my kids, taken them to the mental unit of my local hospital on xmas morn and new years day so they could see her,deal with my then 10 year old deal with bed wetting for 18 months, and my 16 yr old son refusing to see her.Somehow we have got through this and have grown really tight as a unit,but after taking them to spain for a holiday, i feel even more alone,as the kids get back to their lives, i just die inside a little more,i try not to, but i am so low on confidence,ive tried dating agencies,but to scared to reply,its 4 yrs now and i dont want to grow old alone,but if i dont get out,no ones going to knock on my door.If it wasnt for my kids, i would make a wish and ask to be an alcoholic or somethink else horrible as long as i had just one friend.................. how sad is that?
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Donnylass
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| August 04, 2008 | ||
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Hi How 2, I can relate to your last statement about wishing to be an alcoholic-my stbx attends AA, and I began to envy him-all of a sudden he was 'Mr Popular' with an active social life and 'friends' I knew nothing about. From what I have learnt, most of them carried on being sick abusive people, so now, years on, I think he is welcome to them-as they are to him!!! I will stick with my loving family, and a few close, supportive family. I would like a better social life though  Take care  |
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Donnylass
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| August 04, 2008 | ||
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Oops-sorry lifesolong-I was thinking if Fred Dineage in 'How' !!!!  |
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townie
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do you have any hobbies or interests?Things you'd like to take up now you can do what you want?I think now would be a good time to widen your circle of friends, get involved with local groups, perhaps go to gym, and through that you may meet someone, or at least make more friends.When you are feeling happy with what you are doing, someone will come along when you least expect it.To actively go out'to meet someone to date' is quite a scary dangerous thing, better to just live your life and try to be happy with it, and make a friend who then you could date?gingerbread is a good support group,you get to go out and make friends with other single parents.(hope my opinion is much better than dodgy dating agencies?) | |
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determined
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I agree with townie. even a night clas you will end up meeting people. scary to do sometimes but u have to just give it a try good luck determined |
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