Hi all,

I just can't get a grip ! my wife is still going ahead withthe divorce and it is destroying me , I know its my fault its happening but I just can't handle it .  I am not an emotional guy and probaly only cried 3 times in the last 10years  but now I am crying all the time, even at timy things like my little boys favourite song  etc and just can't stop it, I feel like a passenger . not sleeping well ....I have 2 dreams/nightmares every night now that wake me up crying which are that my wife meets someone else and that I am not there to protect my children . its like a part of me has

Hey all,

 Just an update,  my wife looks to be going ahead with the divorce which is killing me.

I have a question, her parents have offered me a sum of money to buy me out of the house ...it is alot less than am owed but will enable me to put a deposit down on another small house maybe which would allow my beautiful children then to visit and even stay over  but will I get taxed on this money ??

Hi,

Am new to this site and having read alot of the stories they make me very sad, unlike most of the stories about husbands affairs and how they are acting badly,  well I am one of theose husbands who has been labelled a liar , I had an affair online with a girl I have only met 3-4 times on business but my wife found some explicit emails from me to her and thought  I was having an affair in I guess in some ways I was and do not blame my wife one bit As I would of assumed the same.  She has gone to the solicitor yesterday and I'm terrified,  we have a 9 month girl and a 4 year old boy who are