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Jul 30
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Decided the best thing for me was not to communicate with my ex so I have deleted her phone number - this has worked quite well for the past week.
I found out that she had planned to go away this weekend with her new fellow as it is his birthday. All good with me - it would mean that I would have my son for the whole weekend.
This morning she texted me saying 'will you look pick up son on Friday as I have booked to go away this weekend it you can not then I will take him with us.' Now this made my blood boil she seemed to be blackmailing me; look after son or I will take him away on dirty weekend away with new fellow (whom my 4 year old son does not know) We have only been split for 6 weeks and she said that she would not introduce son to new fellow until they had been together for at least 6 months, which we agreed was a good idea.
I had to phone her up (had number from text she sent) and ended the call saying something to her along the lines of I could not give **** what you do as long as you dont involve son you can '#*%%$£"**(( _)_) * ^&^ %^%^%^ for all I care! She then called me up, in error, she had meant to phone her new fellow. She said, thinking she was speaking to him, guess what Paul just said *^^&%^$%%&"£ £( "£& ( _ _+ + and was laughing about it. I said this is Paul you are speaking to.
Ahhhh can not believe this woman!!!!
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Saffron1968
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| July 30, 2008 | ||
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I dont really understand, you were obvioulsy swearing here in yoy blog, which has been blocked. On one hand you were saying that you knew your ex was going away fro the weekend and it meant you could ahve your son the the whole weekend, then on the other you seemed annoyed about collecting your son on Friday. Maybe I have not read it properly as a lot of text was missing. Well anyway i do hope that you enjoy the weekend with your son and that the weather improves. Take care Saffy |
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paul88888
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| July 30, 2008 | ||
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Sorry if not too clear was bit angry when I wrote it and the words just flow out. All a bit complicated; she had assumed that I would not want to look after son as she was going away with her new lover - someone had been talking in her ear - and she felt that I would say no just to mess up her plans. She had not even mentioned it to me at all and as I mentioned; I had not contacted her for a week. The first I heard from her was the text. Yes a few swear words did come out, I think it is best if I type them as *£*"& LOL |
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gorgeous
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| July 30, 2008 | ||
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I know you have only recently split so everything is raw but concentrate on your son now. So what if she goes away with this guy you are no longer together sorry if that sounds unfeeling I dont mean it to. Try and prioritize your feelings be strong and true to yourself. | |
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Bloke123
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| July 31, 2008 | ||
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I empathise mate all the way You'd think she'd be a bit more diplomatic and ask if perhaps you'd like it if she dropped your son over - not you come and oick him up. The fact that she laughed when she thought she was speeking to loverboy just demonstrates just how little respect she has for you - and herself for that matter. She should understand that this is probably the most devastating time in your life and you need time and understanding - not nastiness and fun making. Anyone who can't give the person they once loved a little respect in such difficult times deserves one day what they will get - you reep what you sew in life and she's planting plenty! Keep your pride and dignity mate and try and give her absolutely no reason to be nasty to you. Do what's right for you and your son and this way he'll always remember it and respect you for it. |
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gareth67
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| August 01, 2008 | ||
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Hi Paul, Would really like to say this won't happen again but from where I am it gets worse, mine has the habit of if i'm putting the little one to bed she goes out, I come down stairs to my daughter and go where mom, and she doesn't know apart from shes gone out, no idea when she will be back. My daughter has also told me that when my son is in bed and she is down stairs her mom goes out sometimes and leaves them there, for f**k sake they are 2 & 8 but again no proof so can never take it further. Just think of the good time you can have with out her and focus on you and your son Best of luck Gareth |
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