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Jul 06
2007
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A bit scared really ........Posted by Mazliz in Untagged |
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Ok -new to this site, I'm still finding my way round it.
Instructed solicitor 3 days ago, so am veering between elation that I've finally managed to get the courage to do something that I'm sure is right, and complete despair when I think of the effect this will unboutedly have on our 6 year old.
Doesn't help that my husband, rather than being furious when I told him (which judging by his usual reaction is what I'd expected), started crying and declaring his undying love - believe me it makes it harder when faced with emotional blackmail about how I'll ruin our daughters life and how much he realises he loves me (considering the reasons why I'm going to go through this it's all a bit late really). He wants me to consider separation first rather than rushing into divorce - haven't had time to think about that yet, but would be glad to hear from anyone on their views over separation.
Anyway - need to be strong. At least he's away for two days, so won't have him crying all over me!!
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weenie
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| July 08, 2007 | ||
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Hey sounds like my hubby!! I fully understand the emotional blackmail, ive had it everyday since i started divorce proceedings last week. We have an 8yr old, and im constantly being told by hubby, how im ruining our sons life, and the undying love for me bit, and how much this will cost him etc etc..... Hey, he shouldve thought about that on in the first place, and maybe we wouldnt be here now!!! As ive been told lately, be strong for you and your children, and remember you do count in all this too!!! Best of luck  |
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