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Jul 20
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Goodbye my loverPosted by legallyblondetoo in grief and loss |
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From Wikivorce Team:
On the 19th July amanda (aka legallyblondetoo) lost her beloved partner Mark.
Amanda's blog entry written whilst she was still in a state of shock just hours after the event has been unpublished out of respect to herself, Mark and Mark's family.
Please feel free to leave any messages you have for Mark and Amanda below.
You can find information regarding flowers and charitable donations here...
http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Blogs/1871-Update-on-Amanda.html
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determined
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amanda u just face real peeps when u can. u are in out thought sand we are all touched deeply. determined |
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Shezi79
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Just a kiss and a hug sweetheart, you know where I am  Linda x |
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Tetleys
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Take your time and take care. Thinkin of you ((((((Amanda))))))). Richard x |
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Claymic78
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Amanda you are in my thoughts and prayers....you take your time hun...we will all be here for you when ur ready love claudette |
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Convict_Keeper
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Im new here and dont think we have met, please accept my deepest sympathy. and although i dont know you, you are in my thoughts CK |
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pinkballoon
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my thoughts & prayers are with you and the children and may the love of everyone here at wiki embrace you in a warm hug xxx | |
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Tassiedevil
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XXX your words say more than you can possibly know, god love you and bless you and the children during this time, you are an amazing woman to describe what you have just been through. I dont know about anyone else, but you have described love in more ways than you can imagine. The totally captivating love you have for a man- your Mark was so touching, I understood everything you said... And I also know the sort of love you have for the ex, sounds like he was still a good fellow and you were still friends, and who was the man who did something pretty amazing during this terrible time for you and yours. These people are angels, they are not picked, they just step up.. Blessings to you and your family during this time. You are an inspiration to more people than you know...Take care XXX |
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blondie007
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my thoughts are with you.....sending you a big hug and a kiss x.... | |
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catfoley
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My deepest sympathy take care and may God give you strength to get through this x | |
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kidsinbulgaria
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Think James Blunt knows a thing or too about how you are feeling. Extract from Goodbye my Lover :- "Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I am a dreamer but when I wake, You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take." I don't know where you are getting your strength from at the mo. Long may it continue. Mike x |
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mankydog
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Amanda, Please accept my deepest sympathies at your sad loss, my thoughts are with you and your family ((((hugs)))) |
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Newton
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Amanda I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and both your families at this saddest of times. I'd like to echo the sentiments of Kerry (Tassie) whose words are so enlightening and thought provoking. (((((((((((((((((((( xxx AMANDA xxx )))))))))))))))))))))) Newt |
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Dadsrus
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((((Amanda)))), your blog says it all. You and all your family are in my prayers. You have given so much, dont be afraid to receive right now. bless you George |
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lyndamac
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I am so sorry to hear this , the aunt is right she is testament to a long term problem Mark had that some could not see,they say we all see what we are able to cope with. You simply can not argue with a loss it is so final . I am sorry for those who are left behind now. You are not to blame for him ending his life. Sometimes though it only takes 1 thing to send someone over the edge. Think of the children they need you now focus be strong now as they need you most of all. I had to think of my eldest son when I was pushed to the limits it is the family left behind that suffer the most. My sincere deepest sympathy for all of your family. Lyndamac |
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libby
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god bless you and the children my thoughts are with you libby | |
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singstarman
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Amanda, I am so sorry for your loss xxx. I cant think of a more heartbreaking situation. xxx |
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Daisy040
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Amanda im so sorry honey... theres nothing else i can say right now.. big hugs and sending lots of love amanda (daisy) xxxx |
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Cinders35
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God bless you Amanda and the children, Your in our hearts and in our thoughts Sincere and deepest sympathy Cindy xxxx |
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gorgeous
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I can not begin to imagine how your are feeling I read your blog twice and felt numb. You are such a special loving caring person who has been dealt the hardest hand. I hope you have lots of friends and family around you to support you through the next few months and beyond. You in my thoughts xx |
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Young again
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Amanda, You may be thinking about so many things that have/haven't happened, that you should/shouldn't have done or said. We are here to listen when the questions get too much. With sincere condolences from an open heart, YA XXX |
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starry_eyes
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So sorry to hear your sad news My thoughts and prayers are with you Sending you lots of love |
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fatherofthree
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((((Amanda)))) I was so sorry to hear the sad news about Mark. My heartfelt thoughts and best wishes go out to you and your families at this time. Lots of hugs and love Fo3 |
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Mog
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You will be in my prayers Amanda. God bless. Mog x |
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Mockingbird
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Amanda I cant begin to imagine what you are going through - it puts so much into perspective. You sound an amazing person and your strength will get you and your family through this. Dont do it alone - we are here, as are your family and friends - use them to help you. Time really does heal Thoughts and hugs with you Sarah xx |
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Matt/24/7
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Probably the most heartbreaking thing i have ever read. My thoughts are with you and your family. God bless xx | |
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Louise11
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Amanda I have sat and stared at this page for the past half hour, as I really dont know what or how any words from me could make you feel any better at this sad time. I just want you to know, you and your family are here in my thoughts and heart. Sending you love and warm hugs. Debra xxxxx |
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mishmine
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Hi amanda, What can i say.... words seem useless. my thoughts are with you and yours, will see u when you are ready. you need anything..... holler much love and ((((((((((((((((((amanda))))))))))))))))) mish xx |
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Shell_shocked
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Amanda, iam so very sorry sorry for you loss, my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time with love Richardx |
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Linda E and Dukey
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Amanda, We were so sorry to hear your sad news- our thoughts are with you Love, Linda and Carl xx |
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jude6168
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Amanda I just sat reading with tears streaming down my face. I can?t comprehend how you must feel. You and your children will be in my prayers. I lost my dad suddenly when I was just 14 and I know the pain that caused me. I will be thinking about you. (((((((Hugs))))))) Jude x Jude x |
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IKNOWNOW
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Amanda I cannot find the words. I know you need to find strength for the children but allow others to be your strength. (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) You are in my thoughts, xx Sarah xx |
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Poppie
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Amanda, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones, God bless, Poppie x |
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Angel557
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My thoughts are with you and your families at this sad time. | |
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daisygreen
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Amanda, this is such sad news, my sincere condolences to you and the children, love, Daisygreen - Val x |
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Specialdad
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Really sad to hear this news. Be strong and I will pray for you and your children. SD - Vijay |
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Mneme
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Amanda, I'm so very sorry for your loss, I don't know what to say.. thinking of you and the children and pray you will find some comfort. Love, Mneme |
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Jade
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My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. Sending you love and hugs ((((((((((Amanda)))))))))))) Jenny |
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minniecat
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my thoughts are with you amanda at this sad time | |
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gwenflo
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amanda thinking of you & your family on the sad loss of mark gwenflo xx |
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