no further forward with anything - husband was away last week, supposed to be working in london but found out he was golfing in spain with his mates.   

arrived back today to take daughter out for 3 hours - he is away golfing tomorrow as well.  

I found out at work that i could work some extra hours, so asked him to look after daughter - but he needs to check his diary first - the extra hours are on a saturday.

How do you explain to a 9 year old that dad needs to check his diary before he can look after her - 

he has told her that likley he will be away working in london again on some of the

Feeling the need to moan about things tonight, if i dont i will likley not sleep. So here goes.

Why is it a guy who has everything, nice house almost mortgage free, money in the bank, great well paid job, fantastic daughter (but very tired and stressed out wife who runs around all the time after everyone else) just gives up, walks away needs time to sort themselves out - ooh the luxury of being able to do that at times.  Then decides not going to talk about things, not giving the chance to sort things out - im off and all your getting is half share.   well i know there is the obvious reason

House cant be sold until building warrant agreed.  Husband going to try and get ball rolling on this within next few weeks.Have been told he still has someone lined up to buy the house.Ive still only had 1 half hour with lawyer - who i was not keen on.  Have started putting money away as i know i will need to get one.   Have also prepared sheet listing all the things she went over when i was their - thought next time may save some time and might actualy be able to find out bit more within the half hour.Still dont know what direction best for us - seem to be low on options.

option 1 - daughter