This post ties in with a post on my own personal blog named Gotcha……. dysfunctional complaints procedures.

Before I get to the "meat in the sandwich" I will deal with the siren voices from the self appointed elites in the wikivorce community that perpetually claim that my threads and comments are not why people come to wikivorce and how I endanger the community.

In my world hits means interest and that is true of anybody who is seriously developing a presence on the internet.  In my world professional standards mean somthing, in my world professionals are required to exhibit a level of

I am nearly half a century old, I have zero qualifications, I am the father of two children: Child J who is 18(my little man) and Child SJ who is 15(my beautiful daughter).  As of June 2004 Child J and I have lived on our own in glorious Gloucestershire.
Mum and I were fully consenting partners for 20 years. I pulled the trigger in the martital breakdown.
I am a modern Dad FULLY involved from conception onwards. In the  social circles we mixed, I was one of the most involved of alll the dads. I deffinately changed more nappies and atteneded more playgroups than Mum. 3 months maternity leave