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Jun 10
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Hi, I thought I would write a quick blog as I have had a great night.
i started out feeling fed up, tired, angry etc as I had to help write my daughter Rachel's statement to give to my x's solicitors.
Now it is finished, yippee
I feel like a weight has been lifted just by finishing it, it's surprising how something as simple as a statement can drag you down.
I know a lot of people, myself included, have days when you just want to run away and try to forget this is all going on.
you wonder whether the courts make you do all this paperwork to either put you off divorce or get you to settle because it depresses you so much, you feel that there is no end in sight.
After having some of the worst days so far i wrote a blog when I felt at my lowest, thankfully some wonderful people gave me the strength and support to lift my spirits, they saw it from a different prospective and with their kind words they helped me see that things would get better.
I saw the film Love Actually tonight for the second time, the first time I saw it it made me want to cry as I wanted to be one of those people that found love and happiness, this time around I was smiling, I thought that I am no longer in an abusive marriage and eventually when all this is over, I will have the opportunity of finding love and happiness.
I might never want to find someone else but never the less the opportunity is there should I ever want it and that made all the difference.
I'm sure there will be bad days ahead, but tonight made a bad day better.
dawn x
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Pundit
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Well done Dawn - loving the attitude! There is a world of possibility and opportunity opening up for you - I wish you well in it  Take care Pundit |
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Donnylass
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Well done Dawn. As I wrote in one of my blogs, I have a friend who is really unhappy in her marriage, and she said she envies me having a future. That made me stop and look at my situation in a very different light |
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rosiegirl
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I love that film, its one of the few I have on DVD at home. Have watched it....oh too many times to count  |
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mike62
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Sounds like you turned a significant corner Dawn. Well done you. And it is a cracking film |
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Specialdad
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Well done Dawn. Be postive, think postive, act postive.  |
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mrsnomore
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Good post Dawn x There are some good days to be had x Glad you have had a good nite x Love the film too x I felt that way about Moulin Rouge - that amazing love - awww I am such a soppy sap! |
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IKNOWNOW
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Dawn, glad you could end the day feeling good about life (even if tomorrow you think differently again). Good days and bad days Dawn, but hopefully the good days will overshadow the bad ones more and more. I also love the film "Love Actually", one a friend of mine hasn't seen. Maybe when we meet, that will be our first dvd we watch together. Keep smiling Dawn and remember you are strong as you are now out of that abusive marriage, it just takes time. xx Sarah xx |
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stevie
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pleased for you Dawn good to see a light at the end of the tunnel even if it is a faint one Take care xx |
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