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Jun 08
2008
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Well for those that dont know my situation!..i,ll explain a bit of it..
I,ve been fighting custody and visitation court battles for 3 years..the first year my x and the last 2 years my in laws..The judge said if there was no contact with his side of the family...he was scared for my safety..i said i was not willing to sacrafise my children for it....
So we went thro court battles and the judge keept ordering me to take the kids to see them..but the kids have always said they did,nt want to go...so i did,nt take them and i ended up on a 3 month suspended sentance..whitch we took to the court of apeal and i won...so now we have to start from the beginning..YES THE BEGINNING!! its madness...
my mother in law took me back to court and applyed for me to be put into prison for 3 months whitch goes to prove wat i,ve always said! she does not care about the kids..how could she? sending there mum to prison is not caring about the kids...
So i,m angry because yesterday my daughter saw her granny in town...She said nothing to my daughter ,the grandaughter that she has,nt seen for over 2 years...Yes not 1 word...not "hi...I,ve missed u.."i love u!...not nothing so i am right this is just another way to harras me...
I,ve also found out that they,ve lost ther legal aid and there gonna self rep..so there going to be questioning me..i cant wait for that...this whole thing is a farse.
When are they gonna leave me alone and let us get on with our lives...
when will it end?
Lizann xx
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alan670
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| June 08, 2008 | ||
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Lizann, so sorry to hear about your fight. I am amazed to hear what your outlaws are upto. Hope mine doesn't try anything like that but she is pretty bonkers. Perhaps I should have looked more carefully, my father in law even tried to warn me!!! I don't see how grandparents can have any legal access to children, especially if the children don't want it, but I am still learning what an odd thing english law is. Good luck |
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a*j
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| June 09, 2008 | ||
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Liz There is not much i can say. I know most of you story and as i have said all along dont let the buggers get you down. If you let them see it is upseting you they will have won and will persist. Iknow its hard and easier said than done but i know how strong you are dont fall at the final hurdle liz keep the strong resolve up. Am thinking of you |
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FBGS
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| June 09, 2008 | ||
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Hi HAL I knew things were bad but not that bad. I can't put myself in your position but if you ever need to chat about anything at all the do feel free. I am glad that you have happiness again and hope it continues. FBGS |
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anuska
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| June 10, 2008 | ||
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Hi Liz. Sounds like a nightmare that I might have to go through. Son's father has only made contact with my son on his birthday and Christmas. Sent him a parcel and a cheque and then for Easter abit of money. Not much considering what he's spending on his NP. My father in law died a few years ago. When I had my first hearing his older brother and his mother was there too. She had come up all the way from Devon. I was totally ignored, this is after 20 years being part of the family. My mother in law has never picked up the phone tp speak to my son since stbx left which I think he would have appreciated. On his birthday she did send him a small cheque in the birthday card. I asked my son to ring her and say thank-you. She has still not taken the iniative to ring him and say hello. When I saw them all at court felt very uneasy as if they were ganging up on me. The serious problem I have is that Alex my son has made it very clear he does not want to see his dad. He is very mature, will be 12yrs old soon and doesn't like the things he's seen his dad do. I believe he is now making a application to court for access. I found out from his school that he had rung to see how his son was doing at school, etc etc. Why all this all of a sudden. He also told the Head he had made a decision not to see his son for a year but he was feeling much better and returning to work. (my sxtb) The Head put him straight and said about son he was a very well adjusted happy child and doing very well. We've got the FDR soon and am wondering what he's up too and why all of a sudden he's taking an interest. I feel worried if my son was pushed to see him against his wishes. All children need fathers but I worry that my stbx might not be consistent and resposible. Well something else to face. My son feels settled at the moment and have had long chats with him about his feelings. Don't want hin to get upset again. I share your feelings Anna. (anuska) |
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