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May 31
2008
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Here I go again!Posted by gorgeous in my day today, money and finances, being single, accepting its over |
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I am determined that this saturday I will feel empowered and in control.
Ex2b has contact in an hr so I am mentally preparing myself.
- Going to move my car out of the drive and across the driveway so he cant block me in like last wk.
- Given kids football etc may encourage ex2b to move of his bum
Taking my eldest for his prom suit which i cant really afford but hey who needs food anyway.
So the children have had plenty to eat and drink suncream on hats etc and ready to go.
If ex2b says a word I will ignore it. After all if we could speak reasonably we wouldnt need solicitors !
Heres hoping it goes to plan. SORRY Heres knowing it will go to plan.
Have a great day everybody x
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IKNOWNOW
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Gorgeous, Positive thinking always helps to empower you and let you cope with any abuse. You like me, seem to be doing what you can to make the day with their father as good as is possible. I always make sure my children have had a snack and that they have a drink with them. I thought for a long time that if I did things to take control of the situation that I was in fact playing his games and that made me as bad as him. I have to tell myself that he will not change and therefore I have no choice but to play the game as best I can whilst holding on to my morals. I am struggling at the moment with accepting that I have to let my children spend time with their father and yet I have to deal with the fallout afterwards, all for such little amount of contact. My eldest son really needs a basketball kit as he is probably going to represent our district in the Suffolk Youth games; I will not even bother to ask his father for money towards this, even though I cannot afford it as that will just be another point to him, when he puts some condition or other on giving me the money, some way of controlling me. Well I hope today goes well and you showed him how strong you are becoming. Keep drawing strength from within and from your friends on wiki and things will gradually get better. Power to the Girlies xx Sarah xx |
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gorgeous
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Thanks Sarah doing a blog update x | |
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mongmong99
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Being in control of your own life is the single most important thin you can do. You can't live feeling that someone else is making all the rules and running the show. | |
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