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May 25
2008
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InsanityPosted by Alan333 in financial arrangements, dealing with solicitors |
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I know some of my friends on wiki follow my blog.I try as much as I can to be positive in what I say because I know it is the only way forward.I thought I had found control over the future.Having solicitors and mediators on one's side.
Recently I had to cancel a joint visa card due to the fact that my wife ran up a £1700 bill in one month.I sought advice from my solicitor.They told me to leave £100 food money out for my wife and daughter and pay for anything else sepratley for my daughter as maintenance.
My wife's reaction to this is to slap on me an emergency maintenance order.Which I will fight against.Any hope now of mediation has gone.
Why is it that people one has loved and lived with for a long time. Become the most hated person on this earth?
I have decided to hibernate,Which is to say that all communications are over for the time being.I will no longer negotiate with the mad and insane.
I know that the above sounds very negative.But this post had to be passed like it or not.The road ahead has some obstructions on it and each one has to be dealt with as you approach them.One can not go on without addressing each point as it comes along.
ALAN 333
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denmanra
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| May 26, 2008 | ||
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Alan, its called control, physical, emotional and monetory. My ex is no diff, but you just have to be strong and get your own stregnth to deal with it. Its bad enough that they mess your mind up with thier adultry, lies and deciept, and then they want to control it going forward, if you let them they will. Dont hibernate, you will be doing exactly what she wants. The best form of attack is normality, they cant stand that, just be normal, and start to work on gaining control of yourself. take it easy ricky |
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marriaa
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| May 26, 2008 | ||
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Alan hope things get better soon.It has made me really admire couoles who have gone through divorce amicably.It can be done in some cases but they are very few . Look after yourself.I am sure you will survive to tell us the happy ending |
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gareth67
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| May 27, 2008 | ||
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Hi Alan333, If you can sort it out between you two, it will be much better but as you and I know this sometime doesn't happen. STBX always seem to want their pound of flesh and the rest. Good luck Gareth |
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Shezi79
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| May 27, 2008 | ||
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I don't know why it is, but divorce brings out insanity, greed and God knows what else in some people... I agree with Gareth, still trying to promote reason and good sense means continuing to try to sort it between you. But a healthy dose of dust settling is probably needed first. Take a deep breath Alan, and don't let her change the person you are... Good luck Shez |
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