I've not been on here for a while, I've been busy, including time on a site I saw recommended on here - Plentyoffish.com.  I'm enjoying it, feel positive and even if I don't meet 'the one', I do now know that some ladies will find me reasonably attractive and there is hope for me!

I know there have been previous concerns about people who just suddenly disappear, so this is a good bye in case I don't look again. It's also a big THANK YOU to those that have responded to my posts, or indeed have posted themselves as I have found these beneficial.

Good luck to you all, keep up the good work and

Sigh,

Tonight I went with my eldest son to the college he will probably go to next year. He doesn't know what he wants to do, and it's very hard for him to decide what A levels won't lead him down a dead end but will still be interesting. We met his mum there. I hate to admit it but even on important occasions like this I find thoughts entering my head - "does that ring mean she's engaged to her bloke?", "Why is she still wearing the necklace and cross I gave her?", "I miss her", "God she's stubborn, why won't she accept other's (ie my) opinions?", "Could she not wait until we departed to text

Hello, and goodnight.

 I looked at the home page last night and saw my name against lots of entries. Doh. Seems I've got carried away with feeling a little positive and trying to make helping responses to blogs and posts. My entries are far from the wisest, I havent suffered some of the terrible experiences some others have had or are having, and I am not the word smith I would like to be - so one response and this blog will do me for tonight. I'll try to avoid coming on at all tomorrow as there's a leaving do, and after half a shandy would probably type as much rubbish as normally spouts from