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Apr 30
2008
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Had enoughPosted by avebabe in Untagged |
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Well moveing 2 morrow im going bk 2 the council house my stbx thru me out of 9months ago the council put it bk in my soul name in march 17th my stbx has been tresspassing ever since .He should have given keys bk 2 day at 12noon he hasnt .So im meeting council man at house at 3.45 they r breaking in as he has left place is empy and r going 2 change locks so i can move in .Had so many reports hes trashed place well c .
Ive asked 4 some help from parent line plus 2 help sort out my kids behavior as iv had enough now im going to get weekly 1-1 sessions for 6 weeks better help . My nearly 14yr old She thru at me 2night u have money roy my partner has put money in yr bank account jasmin says so and sharon my friend says so no he hasnt and whats it got to do with u .She wishes she didnt live with me hates me I said well u better decide who u want to live with.Its all to much 4 me now cant take anymore.If they wont to go il respect there decision but do they or do they just wont to hurt me il tell u it works.
Il try and write soon not looking 4ward 2 2 morrow.
avebabe
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alan670
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| May 01, 2008 | ||
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Well I hope tomorrow is okay, you should be pleased to be getting the house back. Good luck with the children Alan |
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avebabe
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| May 01, 2008 | ||
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Thanks A lan Im scared of going bk in case he starts, bad memories in case he breaks in haveing locks changed but th actual door panel ins bashed in he could get in easily had so much happen 2 me u c .Kids do they realy care im not sure anymore just want peace and respect Need a magic wand . avebabe |
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gareth67
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| May 02, 2008 | ||
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Hi babe, Just saw your post, don't get down, it's not your fault! Whatever the kids do is going to be difficult as they are kids and at the end of the day your flesh and blood, but don't put up with any sh** of them. In this day and age I wonder why kids are like this and find that I keep on going back to lack of respect to everyone, the elders, their peers, their juniors? Bring back the old bobby who would sort them out there any then, the teacher who would clip them round the ear or throw the board rubber, or the parent to smack them without the thought of the next knock at the door being the DSS or whatever they are called now. Anyway, you know you can aways chat or mail on here, yes but, no but, no but, whatever. Keep smilin Gareth |
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gorgeous
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| May 03, 2008 | ||
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Sorry its worked out this way who knows what the future holds stay positive x | |
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avebabe
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| June 05, 2008 | ||
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Well im bk on line at last 72hrs I was told took 5 weeks. Well here we go I moved bk on 2nd May the council had to break in my stbx gave wrong set of keys bk what was expected and this is what I found. The stench was unbelievalbe he had peed everywhere up the walls floor whole kitchen stank he cut sky cable in living room a friend fixed that boxes of dirty dishes everywhere, rubbish everywhere ,rotten veg dripping goo, took light bulbs, messed up the electrics, broke central heating fixed all radiators so water would run thru them, smashed glass in my bedroom ripped up all wedding photos broke heads off all ornaments even the kids, made bk gate into ladder so he could climb over left hammer and screw driver on window sill so he could get bk in thru boarded up bk door.The kids bedrooms was intacked but they were convinced there mattresses had flies from his girlfriends cats and had to thow them out. I think the stench of pee in both toilets and kitchen were the worst. Had lots of friends and neiboughs helping and welcomeing me bk . Oh he put rubble all over grass so it would break lawn mower. Took locks of gates and sheds shower was left leacking so when used water came thru ceiling. My friends stayed and scrubed thehouse and help move stuff in I couldnt have asked 4 more help they were great . Ive painted the kids bedrooms sraight away with my partners help and im getting sorted slowly havent got new doors yet tho still waiting. Since ive been bk my 13yr old Daughter has been mixing with some boys who are always in trouble with police for under age sex drugs etc herrasing the nieboughers . Had to get police to talk to her informed school and spoke to parent line ive been at the end of my tether these boys were trying to get her to jump out the upstairs window , shes been slightly better since police spoke to her but I couldnt take any more. There father has only seen my younger daughter whos 11 once spoke on phone couple times in last 12 and half weeks he just doesnt want to no.Hes been here and undone my car boot already and neighbousrs have seen him driveing past my house. He still wont singh finantial disclosure so we can get absolute. So thats it I think been quite busy when I moved bk it was all stations go decorateing etc but my daughters behavior left me so down Icouldnt be bothered but im getting bk slowly . Thats it for now thanks for listening to me . |
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TheMax
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| June 06, 2008 | ||
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HI nothing stopping you getting the absolute you can get that before the finances are sorted out, and go for the finances after.  teens theyre a pain in the proverbial tho most settledown a bit later usualy once they are over the rebelion stage, as long as she has her head screwed on about the birds and bees she should be ok. |
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