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Apr 28
2008
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Got the miseries again!!Posted by Donnylass in Untagged |
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Now I'm home-sitting here having a cry.
We were civil to each other-he was keen to tell me all about how he was doing etc, but I said I wasn't interested. We had arranged to meet to sort out how we can progress to the future. Making agreements that are acceptable to both of us without clocking up horrendous sol fees. That, we both agree on.
I'd put some 'slap' on, + dressed smartly-I wasn't going to meet him looking a mess. I am upset now, because he looked really good-like the bloke I loved + fancied passionately. I wanted him to take me in his arms + hold me, but that was never going to happen. My best friend asked the other day, why he went with prostitutes as 'he's really good looking-why did he pay for sex, most women would have given it for free' !!!
When I've got these tears out of my system I'll be able to look at this reasonably-he may look good, but he isn't a nice bloke to be married to. He hurt me deeply . I suppose his new lady thinks she has a real 'catch', but she may come to realise that beauty is definitely only skin deep with him-the inner person is very unattractive.
And ladies, guess what-the waterproof mascara advertised by Kate Moss, isn't!!! Double b*****ds!!!
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gorgeous
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Sometimes a good cry helps - nothing wrong with that. Its hard to see the man u love, as we remember the happy times and not the bad. Suppose that human nature. Its good u have a best friend to talk to especially now. Mine has taken sides and sadely not with me. Take careX |
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Rasher
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I really feel for you, you come across as so strong and resilient its easy to forget this is still very new in your life and that was a very long standing relationship. Dont feel bad for loving the man you married - you kept to your end of the deal, if we could turn it off and on that easily we wouldnt need sites like this. If he could sort himself out a bit I am sure you would do all you could to help him and you probably recognise hes in a right mess. But you cant look out for him forever especially when hes in such a self destructive cycle. Try not and think of his behaviour in relation to yourself - you could be Ms World and it wouldnt help him with whatever is going on in his mind. Using prostitutes is a whole other issue I wouldnt be surprised if he thought he was being loyal to you using that route for his outlet - I doubt very much that its about sexual gratification probably something a lot deeper. I know no one can tell you not to feel hurt and bad about yrself but we can tell you that we've been there and it sucks. Rasher X | |
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alan670
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| April 29, 2008 | ||
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I've just read both entries and was about to say I hope 5pm goes okay. Sorry it wasn't as you expected. We must all feel some emotion for our former partners, we must have liked and loved them at some stage to get married in the first place. Hope you got some agreement from the meeting. Hang in there, you sounded really perky in blog 1. Alan |
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gareth67
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Hi Donny, Don't let him get you down, as Al says we all have either felt or still feel something for our ex's as we wouldn't have been with them. Don't trust Kate Moss look what she has been out with down the years but like most of us keeps getting back into the circuit and trying again. Hope the comments on here bring you a smile, keep going |
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I bet you looked great! You are doing the right thing in discussing things rationally and in way that enables you both to move on. It is still hard though - full credit there. On another occasion put on your smart outfit and go with your friend for a nice lunch. You may feel better if you realise that you don't have to dress up for him but you can do it for yourself. I bet you may even get an appreciative sideways glance. Enjoy being yourself. The tears will probably still come but they will be less each time and less frequent. He has lost more than you have. |
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