a reflective day i think....

I have read with interest the bloggs today, and i think there is a very reflective content to them all, they cover such a range of emotions and blame, blame on ourselves, us , the people that have been used, hurt, controlled, abused, and lied to, yet we still all have a sense of questionable guilt as if we could have done more to make things better. WE are the ones that have tried to make things better, for our kids, and sometimes at our own cost our partners, and probaly lastly  ourselves. We all spend too much time analysing what we could or should have done, i am my own worst enemy at that, or why we didnt do things a lot earlier to make things better or end the pain.

However as i was replying to donny,s blog, i thought this may be a good reflection for us all:

 There is only one success we should focus on-
to be able to spend your life in your own way and not in the way of others as in the past. The past is something we cant change, but the future is something we should grasp with both hands, we have experiance of the past good or bad ,use those experiances to make the future something you can feel will be the best years of your life.

take care

ricky