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Apr 27
2008
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ConfusionPosted by Specialdad in dealing with emotions, children |
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Well its another day of confusion.
After a long phone conversation with ex to arrange when the kids can come round at half term. There is a phone call a few hours later and ex says she did not check her diary and the original dates are now not possible.
One of the things that my ex has never grasped is that always check exactly if certain dates are ok to agree. She seems to think that everything can be changed all the time.
Frustration is an understatement on how I feel on this point. I made my point clear to her on her cancelling and said one of the reasons we never got on was because she had no idea whether she was coming or going.
I dont want to upset the children but it is not in my hands when their mother is not properly orgainsed or efficient.
Oh well take four as they say in the films.
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marriaa
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| April 28, 2008 | ||
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i understand the frustration,but do not recriminate it will only set you back.She knows this infuriate you so she will do it more. | |
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gareth67
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| April 28, 2008 | ||
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Hi, I have this problem at every step of the way be it a day / night, weekend, or longer, my STBX is at the moment barring me taking the kids on hoilday out of the country for no other reason apart from she doesn't want them going on holiday abroard. And it's not as if I am planning to flee the country, why would I? I work here, the families are here and even though it pains me their mom is here and I want them to grow up with all the people that love them around, however difficult that we be for the "adults". |
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gorgeous
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| April 29, 2008 | ||
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Hi Think of it this way at least at some point u will see the kids at half term. My ex2b hasnt even asked! It doesnt matter about the row really whats important is the kids dont hear and no one passes on their stress to them. Focus on the kids and stay calm. Take care x |
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