I do not know Mark, and I do not know Amanda personally. I only know Amanda from the chat room; always there for people, always there for me, helping with very valuable advice as well as a sense of humour and a wonderful spirit

At my age, one is certain to have been through similar situations, if not personally, then by proxy - a friend, a relative, someone you love..

So when I heard the news, I felt for Amanda, and I put myself in her place. I could not but put myself in her place: What must she be feeling now, the tears, the loss, the uncertainty, the

For a man to have an affair, he is rejecting his partner at a very basic level. He's saying she's not good enough - as a woman. At least that's how I feel. I feel rejected at the most basic level. I am rejected as a woman, my womanhood my femininity, my passion, my love my needs...all of that is cast aside. I am not good enough for him.

Someone here said that ‘HE' is one man, and that I shouldn't see myself through the eyes of one man. It is limited I admit, but how

I have been thinking of what can be done about it but I hit a brick wall every time. Any ideas?

I suppose no matter what the wonderful Wikiforce team does, ‘the others' will always be able to access this site. And no amount of security will stop people from registering and becoming members.

I was almost paranoid when I first joined wiki. I was very careful with disclosing information that might lead to my identity - if there was a shrewd sleuth on the case!!! I was worried about two things; 1) that my spouse would find out what I am