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Apr 13
2008
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He husband who wont let you goPosted by deeds in my story, moving on, breaking up |
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I am new to this, I have never written a blog, I am a 43 year female with a family nearly grown up and married just under 25 years, and I want to leave my husband, I have for a long time, I have tried serveral times, but he wont let me. It does not matter what I do, and I have done some bad things, had affairs, left him and travelled, shouted and screamed at him. It does not matter what I do he considers marriage is for life, I feel the last 10 years for my life have been wasted, and I am scared that I will never break free from him.
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mike62
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| April 13, 2008 | ||
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Deeds, Welcome to Wikivorce and welcome to blogging. In many respects your husband's behaviour is commendable - marriage SHOULD be for life. But circumstances change, we change, our lives change and what should have been a lifetime pairing simply doesn't work anymore. Sometimes we are lucky enough to see the problems coming and deal with them. Sometimes there is an unwillingness to acknowledge problems, by either or both parties. There comes a point however where it simply no longer works, and one or other party is unwilling to change, compromise, or even stay. It is wrong to continue to flog a dead horse. 'It takes two to tango, but if one leaves the floor....what then?' You won't be the first deeds, and I am certain that you won't be the last. Perhaps you can find others here in similar circumstances and find the strength and help you need to move on. Best of luck on your journey. Mike |
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Mneme
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| April 14, 2008 | ||
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hi deeds, i faced the same attitude, with the exception that if i didn't cooperate in his charade of sticking with it for the five to seven years it takes to get over an affair - i don't know who gave him this piece of advice - he would become abusive and issue ulitmatums. he would begin financial offers between ourselves that disadvantaged me, and even if i accepted in principle just to get him off my back he would retract it the next day and tell me we weren't going to split up. i was going crazy too. in the end i had to get out for my own sanity. i wish you well. | |
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