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Feb 07
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Fed up of people saying it will get better, when for god sake!!!! ex is bragging hes claiming dole money and hes doing markets selling our stuff out our shop on the market where we first started our business using my market trading licence and im trying to keep my head above water, were is the justice in this fkd up world grrrrrr.And please do not say only i can change it im trying 20 app forms in for jobs 2 interviews phoning jobs every day so bloody hard so i am trying to better myself, All i want is to work and make a honest wage unlike him fiddling in life like he always has cant wait to see karma if it exsists. I really do wish i had just moved away from this area now. Theres other things that happend today that i dont want to blog its just so unfair sorry for ranting but i know i will get some good suport and addvice off my friends that will snap me out of it why the hell do i still love this man xxx
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raybird
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| February 08, 2012 | ||
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i wish i could make it better for you, i really do xxx feelings cant just be turned off can they xxxxx ((((big hugs)))) | |
ascatfish
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| February 08, 2012 | ||
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1) report him to the job centre if he is claiming dole and working 2) if the market traders thing is in your name contact your council and cancel it - tell them someone else is using it. 3) sit back and have a cup of tea 4) thats karma after its had a kick up the ass  |
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chokoy
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| February 08, 2012 | ||
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caz dear i really feel your pain. please remember that i too am going through the same thing. i wish that things did not happen but i have to live through it nevertheless. we are still alive caz...maybe just half alive but still alive... | |
Canuck425
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| February 08, 2012 | ||
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Well I am full of platitudes but unfortunately I think they're true. Only you can make it better. You're in a s**tty situation. I know how hard the job hunt is. The people I see succeed at it are the tenacious ones who talk to EVERYONE and network like crazy. Use LinkedIn like a master and figure out who's hiring. I'm in software sales and know a few people in the UK so send me a PM if this is your line of work at all. The people I see come through divorce the best are those that are getting on with their lives and don't care one way or the other about the outcome of their ex. That's where I hope to be eventually. So - good luck in your job search that is certainly priority #1! Take care of yourself. |
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scaryclairie
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| February 08, 2012 | ||
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I think those above me have got all angles covered so I'll just send a hug. | |
Young again
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| February 09, 2012 | ||
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((((((CAz)))))) When? It varies Caz - for some peeps it starts like a tiny light at the end of a long dark tunnel. For others they wake up on emorning and suddenly realise that their life is no longer littered with massive turds left by their ex. But in both cases it isn't a matter of days, weeks or even months. Caz it's going to be a couple of years - you think that is a long time? IT IS NOT!! It may seem like a long time, because it is full of s**t but by leaning on peeps willing to support you and keeping your head up the time will pass quicker than you think. I never thought my emotions would survive, they did and they grew. Never give up (((((Caz))))), never give in - we are here to help in any way we can. YA |
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Mitchum
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| February 09, 2012 | ||
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(((Caz)))) All the time you think nothing's happening - it is. You are healing although you don't feel it. You've suffered a huge shock and all the worry and emotional pain wears you down. You wouldn't expect to be over a bad illness so quickly and this is a bit like that. Starting work will bring changes and new people into your life, and that's when you'll begin to feel better day by day. When you get settled in your job you could think about moving from the area, but you've just spent all that time and energy, to say nothing of the money to decorate your place, why move right now? Hang on in there. Things will get better. xx |
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Patrick1968
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| February 09, 2012 | ||
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Do you love him or do you love the stability and comfort of your old life? What did he give you? And what is he giving you now? From what I've read in your blogs he hasn't got any respect for you or any integrity himself. There is NO karmic judgement, waiting for that to happen will be like getting a ride of the EAster Bunny..won't happen. You can re-dress the balance by telling whoever you need to about the benefit issue. You will love him for a long time, it won't change for a long time and the sh8t will keep coming for a long time. So now you know. And now you know there won't be any surprises so you can crack on with applying for jobs. One other thing. You don't need to better yourself, there is nothing wrong with you. You need a job and your doing your best. Stop beating yourself up. | |
caz2011
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| February 09, 2012 | ||
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Yes patrick i think you are right i think i am missing my old life sometimes i think why because i wasnt happy he was never there to support me as long as he got his money to get he was happy, never mind the fact we where getting evicted it was awful i will be ok im worth more just a bad day thats it. Thanks my wiki friends yous always make me see sence | |
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