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Feb 03
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ranting exPosted by ascatfish in soon to be ex, my day today, abuse and violence |
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Without going into two many details I had the ex ringing me up today screaming at me because he had obviously spied on my twitter again and didnt like what my friends were saying to me about him and his rancid other woman (the comments were fairly innocuous tbh) . Now I should say my tweets are protected and hidden and they cant see anything I write. I've had the police out about them stalking and harrassing me online twice now, but they still carry on. To the best of my knowledge at one point they were checking my twitter hourly cos I tested it out. The police advised me to not to look at their Twitter and I never do now. I'm not interested in reading their lies and rubbish.
Now I should say my ex left ME. A year ago. The OW keeps spouting about how happy they are. The OW had a baby 4 days ago. To me though actions speak louder than words. Why does he keep checking up on me and then using it as an excuse to ring and shout at me? If they are genuinely so happy why am I even on their radar?
I was very calm when dealing with his outburst at me and kept asking him why he was shouting at me. I didnt get to say what I really wanted to say which was "Why are you looking at my twitter feed anyway?" but never mind. i was proud of myself for being calm and unemotional even when he was threatening to drag me through the courts presumably about these tweets from my friends. I really am just bored of all this now.
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caz2011
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| February 04, 2012 | ||
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Tell him to boil his head whats up is he jel u got mates to tweet ha ha sad lifes they must lead nothing better to do proud of u to hun u r worth so much more keep posting on fb about kids cheers me up ha ha two coats pmsl ha ha x | |
jjones123
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| February 04, 2012 | ||
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Indeed, well done you for being calm when being presented with shouty nonsense. I loved your phrase, 'the rancid other woman', that made me laugh. I also loved Caz's phrase of 'tell him to boil his head'. I wish I had said that to my ex  |
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patti.p
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| February 04, 2012 | ||
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Ascat, Im so sorry youre getting this grief!!! (((hugs))). I don't understand this horrible woman and her obsession with you and your life. And, well, yes, they had a baby, certainly they have other things to concentrate on rather than your life? I know they already do ridiculous things just to keep an "eye" out on you and what you are doing & I wish there was some way for me to help you. I think it's good you have alerted the authorities, please keep diaries & keep them informed to protect yourself. Its just such a pathetic situation that you were the one who was left, but your H obviously either realises he has made a bad decision (his fault) or she is forcing him to act like a complete lunatic (his fault). Its no wonder you have had enough, this is far, far worse than what anyone could expect you to take. I only hope that very soon he gets a grip, & starts listening to people that tell him to lay off. Please just keep an eye out for yourself, protect yourself, be careful. xx |
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ascatfish
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| February 04, 2012 | ||
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i think its this ongoing abuse that keeps the wounds raw tbh. One of my friends mentioned that men who father children willy nilly should have two bricks used on a certain part of their anatomy- and in the madhouse this has become that my friend has threatend to attack the baby with 2 bricks (!) its ridiculous but my friend is now understandably upset that her off the cuff remark has resulted in so much aggro for both of us - her tweets arent protected you see. its become so bad with all my friends systematically getting attacked by them and their bullies that eventually few of them tweet to me and i cant use Twitter the way I would like - and THAT IS Bullying  I was amused by the fact that the man who reckons he cant afford child support reckons he can drag me through the courts though... especially as I have told him, and my solicitor has told him and the court has told him, that we need to do mediation first! |
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carlykav
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| February 04, 2012 | ||
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Well done asacatfish for staying calm. Shame he has nothing better to do than follow you on twitter! And shame on him! Take care of yourself. |
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freefalling
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| February 05, 2012 | ||
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Hi Caz, It doesn't sound like your ex and SOW are leading a very happy and exciting life! If I was gloriously happy with my new man, I certainly wouldn't be checking up on his ex and acting like a juvenile idiot. It's sad that in this world you need to have a licence or permit to fish, hunt, drive a car or build a house but any a@#ehO*e can have a baby!!! Take carexx P.S. SOW - sad other woman. Apologies to all female pigs. These animals have value and make a valuable contribution to society unlike these women  |
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Canuck425
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| February 05, 2012 | ||
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You do not have to take screaming. That's not ok. You did well to keep calm, way to go. I would let him know that if he yells at you again you will either hang up immediately or walk out of the room. It is that simple. It's very effective - I've employed this technique. Be happy your not with him and don't put up with or engage that abuse. | |
scaryclairie
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| February 05, 2012 | ||
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I would be horrified if 4 days after having a child my ex was more interested in following another woman (let alone ex wife) on twitter. What a silly man. Well done for being calm. (Come to think of it my son was 2 months and I was feeding him when ex told me trollop fancied him, and had been sitting on knee saying so at office party - believe me it feels crap however you try to supress it.) It's not the point, but i can't help thinking, that poor baby to be born to such juvenile people. Sorry none of this is much help with how awful it is to be stalked like this. | |
ascatfish
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| February 05, 2012 | ||
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Well I had the OW's trailer trash mother telling me on Twitter last night she hopes I break my #@*king neck..which was nice. Again none of them can see ANYTHING I write so they have decided to attack me based on one sided conversations where they can see my friends comments. And apparently all my friends who had dared to comment to me on twitter got abuse all night long. The police did tell me to leave twitter so that she couldnt abuse me on there, which is an option obviously, but I dont see why I should be bullied off a social media tool that I enjoy - surely that is them winning then... Grrr | |
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