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Feb 01
2012
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IT Bl**dy ITPosted by carlykav in my day today, children, bad day |
Sorry wiki friends, this is likely to be a rant about …………well almost everything!
Every night around 11:30 / midnight, my internet connection crashes, let’s me back on the crashes again and so the cycle repeats until I get fed up and just power off!
I usually also have Facebook open chatting to family in Aus and Dubai.
It makes me seem to be so rude when in chat / on messenger!
Is it just America waking up and sensitive thing that my PC is, it can’t cope?
I delete my browsing history daily, to reduce clutter on the hard drive, but it still has little effect.
I no longer add to saved data as H now has to do his own accounts. Or he’s getting someone else to, which is most likely as a printer appeared in the porch, then disappeared on Monday!
Yesterday was even worse as I lost my work laptop connection as service providers shifted my laptop and profile to a new location, meaning I had to visit work to connect to the network, to enable a home connection by broadband. And that’s still not right – phone call to them Monday as laptop still thinks I reside at my old location!
Added to that H came by to tell me estate agent coming round again – I needed to find him when they arrived. 9:30 came and went. 9:40 he was off in the van – ran out to ask was estate agent still coming? He’d ring and let me know! 5 mins later – estate agent has gone to another appointment!
So glad that happened – really couldn’t face sitting across a table with H!
So if I hadn’t chased, does that mean I’d still be waiting……….and waiting? Well obviously as he didn’t come home tonight!
Oh yes need to say – he coughed up some cash for son: £150 – Give him a round of applause! Son had to make the effort on Monday, pretence of can I have money for this week’s driving lesson?
H then had cheek to ask did I know when son was likely to be test ready? And I know that because………… He’s the one who is normally around when son has lessons – why can’t he ask! Next question – and what about theory? Answer – getting there slowly on the Test Programme he uses! Why oh why can’t he just talk to son?
Son said, I’d love to be able to have a proper conversation with dad; I don’t want to find that 10 years on we are still not “talking”.
Asked what he wanted to do about that?
Ask him to put the kettle on and I’ll have a coffee?
Go for it son – he’s in, I said.
Mum, he said, it can wait – one step at a time!
Son banked money and is now spending it on books!
Roll on daylight – things can only get better!
Thanks for listening / reading!
Comments (4)

scaryclairie
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Mitchum
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| February 02, 2012 | ||
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((((Carly)))) This is absolutely the worst time in all the unravelling of a marriage and a home. I always think it's so exhausting being brave all the time but this phase WILL END. Believe it. One day you'll wake up and realise you've survived and be hugely relieved that it's over. Very sad yes, but glad that you can at last move on. |
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patti.p
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| February 02, 2012 | ||
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Carly, Have you thought about calling your broadband provider & asking them to send you a new router? Its just an idea, I have BT and that used to happen but once they replaced it the problem is better. I read your blog, I cant believe that your H can just be obtuse to the fact that his children see what's going on. I know you love your kids & its a testament to your love that they communicate with you and not him. How sad that your son seems to want to reach out and the H won't speak to him personally! I hope this is just a blip & that things get better quickly. I know how frustrating it is with estate agents and I hope that saga ends soon for you. Hugs Carly xx ((())) were thinking of you xx |
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disenchanted
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| February 02, 2012 | ||
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I think patti is right,contact BT and if you dont get any joy threaten to move your account,that will get their finger out.I was with sky and they were the same,now with o2 and have never had a problem...fingers crossed lol. My 1st relationship...ex-h, is like that with his kids,now adults...he finds it so difficult to talk to them its uncomfortable to watch but he barely aknowledges his grandson unless someone says to him.Its such a shame but its his loss.... Your son sounds lovely and very sensible so well done to you on bring him up to not be his dad!!! |
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